tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7548398907848715012024-02-06T18:19:58.412-08:00Abbey CarmenA twenty something girl writing about current topics, life and anything and everything else inspiring.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.comBlogger48125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-60270400297132954632013-07-22T19:36:00.000-07:002013-07-22T19:36:54.835-07:00Music Video Monday!! My sister had me listen to some India Arie tonight and I came across Heart of the Matter. How great is that song? Love it! <div>
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I have another one I wanted to post for today though..but it has the same topic in it...forgiveness. Love this song because it reminds me how forgiveness is not really about the other person. Instead it sets YOU free. It is hard to understand when you are going through hurt, but when it comes down to it, holding on to hurt is poison. It makes you sick! Let it go, let it be. </div>
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If someone is continually hurting you, don't let them have that power over your life anymore. I'm not saying you need to cut them out of your life forever, just reevaluate how much time you are spending trying to please them. You can be there for them and support them with what they are going through, but you don't have to allow them to determine your mood or worth. </div>
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"Let's shake free of this gravity of judgement and fly high on the wings of forgiveness."</div>
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This week something I observed is the value of a silent listener.<br />
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When someone tells you something do you listen to them? I mean really listen to them?<br />
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Sometimes we may jump in to agree with what they are saying and tell a story to relate to them.<br />
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Sometimes we may listen to some of what they say and then jump in to tell them what we think they should do.<br />
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Sometimes people just want you to listen to them.<br />
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If you have ever had a family member or friend who has sat there and let you talk and get what you need to say off your chest, no interruptions and no stopping you to tell you what they think, then you probably know the value of a silent listener. Some people pay big money to have someone just sit and listen to them.<br />
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A lot of times when people are able to talk something out and have someone there to listen, they are able to figure things out on their own. Having someone there to give you advice on what you should do is also a wonderful thing. If you are able to hear the advice from others and can do what they say you should do then that can be very helpful. There are times though when YOU know what is best and YOU need to trust yourself. Learning on your own and through your own experiences is usually the most effective way because everyone is different and have different lessons to be learned. What did not work for others may work for you and may be a critical lesson you were meant to learn.<br />
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It can be hard to be a silent listener. We want to jump in and tell others what we think they should do because of what we have learned. There is something powerful in silence though. This is why I bring this up today. This past week I had a moment where the silence spoke more to me than anything that person could say.<br />
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After I finished updating someone on how things have been going in my life and venting some about things that I was frustrated about, she simply stared at me and didn't say a word. I was finished. Why was she just staring at me? Then after a kind of awkward silence I started talking again. Unsure if she was listening I started trying to wrap up the conversation and see the bright side of what I had been venting about. It was in that moment, where I was trying to figure out something on my own and talk it out that I had an "A-HA" moment. It was suddenly so clear!<br />
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I don't even know if she knew what she did. It felt good though to figure it out on my own and realize the answer that was right in front of me.<br />
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I then tried to apply this type of listening the rest of the day and see if I could be a silent listener for others. :) If you really think about it, a lot of the social networking sites are exactly this. Many people use these as opportunities to say what they want to say and have others listen to them. No interruptions.<br />
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Silent listening was actually kind of hard to do. So instead I would do some repeating of what they said and then be silent and they would pick up from there. It actually went well. I think they liked having someone to just listen also. That or they thought I was a little nuts...<br />
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Either way it may be a reminder of how important it is to have reflection time for yourself. Some quiet time for you to reflect and get out a pen and paper to journal. Don't worry about spelling, hand writing or what anyone would think. Just write.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-68154201395386715662013-02-02T20:19:00.000-08:002013-02-02T20:19:17.386-08:00Sweat it Out SaturdayHey guys, hope you all had a great Saturday! We had a nice Saturday, productive and got to spend time with some family. Ready for a relaxing Sunday tomorrow.<br />
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I did not do a Friday Favorite post because today and Friday kind of go together. My Friday Favorite was my new workout shirt!<br />
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I got a new workout shirt this week from <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/RufflesWithLove?ref=shop_sugg" target="_blank">Ruffles with Love</a> and I am in love with it! Working out is so much more fun when you have a new cute work shirt to work out in. :)<br />
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Here is my new shirt!<br />
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This was a fun little reward to myself for pushing hard for 30 days. It is good to reward yourself with something small so you have motivation to get to your next small goal. A great idea on Pinterest I saw was a tip jar. Each time you workout you give yourself a dollar. Then when you have enough, you can buy something for yourself. It is even better if what you buy is work out related.<br />
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My next goal is the Polar watch. This is more pricey than a shirt so I am REALLY going to have to push myself for this one. :) I am debating between the Polar and the Fitbit. Any suggestions??<br />
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Hope you all are having a great weekend!!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-30593408288786574382013-01-31T20:03:00.000-08:002013-01-31T20:03:08.740-08:00Thoughts for ThursdayHey!<br />
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Have you ever taken the Meyers-Briggs Type indicator test? This thing is AMAZING.<br />
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My fiance and I had to take a couple of tests for marriage prep and the Meyers-Briggs was one of them. I remember taking this test in college but I didn't give it much thought. How much could a test really tell you about your personality?<br />
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Well tonight I realized this test is more legit than I thought. It not only told me more about myself than I realized but it was amazing how perfectly it described our relationship.<br />
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If you have never taken this test I suggest you do. <br />
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You know who you are. You know what you like and what makes you happy or what makes you uncomfortable. So why take the test?<br />
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The test helped me realize a few things. One major realization was, this is who I am. I am an ENFJ. As I read through the description of an ENFJ I felt as if someone was telling me more about myself than I even knew. Why do I try to change these things about myself? This description is EXACTLY who I am and you know what, I like this description! :)<br />
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Then we went on to read our relationship description with our two personality types. Ryan and I couldn't stop laughing. It was like the lady who was reading it to us had known us forever. Better than even our friends or family.<br />
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We actually only had one letter different. We are more alike than we thought! Hearing what we need to work on and be aware of really helped us. You would think after 6 years we would have this down but it made us realize why we have certain arguments we do. We just do those things differently because of the type of people we are! Now that we are aware of this, we know how to work with it and not take things personally.<br />
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This is also a great test to take for people who are looking for a job. Once you know your personality type you can see what jobs you match up with.<br />
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Overall this test gave me a little bit more confidence in knowing who I am. It is wild how as we get older we realize who we are when we are no longer trying to conform to what everyone else thinks we should be. Once you get that feeling of not caring and you realize God made you a certain way, you become more comfortable in your own skin. You are who you are for a reason. Be aware of your strengths and your weaknesses. Be happy with who you are. You were made this way for a reason. When you are confident in who you are and how you feel, you are less likely to be distracted about what others think about you. And that is such a freeing, peaceful and wonderful feeling.<br />
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Have you taken this test? Which personality type are you? I found out that ENFJs only make up 3% of the population! Guess who else is an ENFJ? Oprah Winfrey. So cool! :)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-59302043774501075102013-01-30T21:20:00.000-08:002013-01-30T21:21:47.567-08:00Today is Watch It Wednesday!<br />
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I didn't have time to make a video for today so I thought I would post one I made a couple of years ago. I made this video after going on a trip to Chicago with some friends. Going back and watching the video today brings back so many great memories we had that weekend. Photo albums are awesome to have but I am definitely into video scrap-booking. :)<br />
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This video is a couple years ago so we do get a bit silly in it and my camera control/editing is a bit rough. I also do not have rights to the music, it was just a couple of songs that were popular and that we enjoyed listening to at the time.<br />
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Video Link ----> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=552846639408&set=vb.66703194&type=3&theat" target="_blank">Chicago Video</a><br />
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I hope you enjoyed watching! Next week I hope to have a new YouTube video post. Check out my About Me video if you have a chance!!<br />
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Thanks everyone for reading and watching. Please comment if you have an ideas on video post topics. I am kind of nervous to start doing this. :)<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-86765792841755005762013-01-29T19:21:00.000-08:002013-01-30T08:06:05.025-08:00New Theme Change Hello everyone!<br />
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I have decided to go with a theme for future posts. Much like Music Video Monday and Friday Favorites but adding to it! Here is the post them I want to try. Let me know what you think!<br />
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One of my professors, Eileen Solomon, from Webster once told me how important it is </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-53652768493976288282013-01-28T09:10:00.000-08:002013-01-28T09:10:21.693-08:00Music Video MondayHello!<br />
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Can you believe this is the last Monday of January!?! I can't. Another month that FLEW by.<br />
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Today I want to post a song that I LOVE. I went for a run this morning and when it came on I had a huge smile on my face. This song makes you remember that today IS a good morning and a fresh start. MAKE it a good day. Nothing can stop you, only you can stop you from what you want to do. Dig deep and remember that anything is possible when you have God on your side. Take a deep breath and live in this moment. Celebrate today.<br />
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I had a long drive yesterday to pick up my bridesmaid's dresses. On the way I heard this song and FELL IN LOVE. I wasn't sure if the music video would be good, but I just checked it out and it is great!<br />
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I am often surprised when someone first notices my birthmark but has known me for a long time. I feel like it is the first thing people notice. Maybe because when I was younger it was bigger and people would often ask me "what is that on your face?" <br />
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I'm not sure why I have been ashamed of my birthmark. Mostly because it was different and I felt looked weird. My mom would tell me when I was younger that it was where an angel kissed me because I was so cute and they couldn't resist. My mom is the best. :)<br />
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When I was a baby it looked like I had a strawberry on the side of my cheek. Now it is not as noticeable but you can still see it.<br />
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I know this is an absolutely silly thing to be concerned about. Today I don't really think twice about people seeing my birthmark. If they do I just smile and tell them what it is, not letting it bother me but instead being happy it is still noticeable. Isn't that funny? I went through all of my life trying my best to hide it with different hairstyles and makeup. Now that you almost can't see it anymore, I kind of miss it! </div>
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I guess it just kind of teaches you a lesson. There may be "flaws" we think we have with ourselves. Things we try to hide because they are weird or not what everyone else has. For example, I have often wanted to get a nose job. I couldn't stand the bump in it and the size. Now, knowing what I do about my birthmark I don't think I would get a nose job even if someone paid for me to have one. It is what makes me who I am. Yes I could get a nose that is more "prettier" and like the celebrities but that wouldn't be the one God created for me. It would almost be loosing a part of who I am. </div>
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So, do I still put makeup on my birthmark? Yes, when I put makeup on my face I do cover my birthmark. However, when I am doing day to day tasks and not wearing makeup I don't work to hide it anymore. No more concealer on no make up days. </div>
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To accomplish goals we have to make sure we have a clear vision of the goal. It wasn't until this moment that I realized I did not actually ever have a clear vision. The goals were in my head, up there somewhere with all the stuff I had to get done. Just like the other stuff that I accidentally forgot to do because they were not written down on a list, I was not meeting my goals because I was forgetting what they were!<br />
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So, now my goals are written down and I have a clear vision of what I want. I encourage all of you to do this. Take your time, really think about your goals and write them down. Chalene says you should re-write them each week. They may change as the weeks go on but that is not a problem.<br />
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The 30 Day push has been awesome so far and it is only Day 3. If you don't do the challenge then make sure you write some goals for yourself. I promise will not regret taking the time to organize your goals and get them down on paper. Please feel free to share your top 3 here!! :)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-35830108252163516592013-01-02T13:52:00.001-08:002013-01-02T13:52:28.548-08:00Lessons LearnedHello!!<div>
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I am excited to start this new year out with the help of Chalene Johnson. She created a program called the <a href="http://www.chalenejohnson.com/30daychallenge/members/Find-Your-Push-Goal.html" target="_blank">30 Day Push</a> and she teaches you how build the foundation to achieve your goals. She makes it fun and keeps you accountable by having you post your goals and daily challenges on instagram. I encourage you to do this! You can follow me on Instagram (abbeycarmen). </div>
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So, the video I wanted to post is by the Lumineers, Hey Ho. I LOVE this song!!! So much fun!<br />
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I know my prayers were being answered by the way I found this job. Now that I am in it, I am seeing even more why this was my first stepping stone. For a while I was down on myself thinking I was never going to find a job. Working for my fiance's business was great but I wanted to do what I went to school for. Nothing was opening up and that is when I decided to take a deep breath, refresh my mind and take a job that would make me some money in the meantime.<br />
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I wont go into what the book is about right now because I will talk about it on another post. If you want a good inspirational read you should get this book! The beginning where Carnegie discusses the fundamental techniques in handling people will not only teach you a lot about others but may also teach you some things about yourself or some about the immediate relationships in your life.<br />
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3.) <b><u>Drinking:</u></b> I am loving this cool down in weather and the fall like weather! Nothing better than opening the windows and the smell of fresh air in the home. Even better is enjoying the cool breeze with a nice warm cup of coffee. My favorite coffee is from Quick Trip! I know lots of people love Starbucks Pumpkin Lattes but I LOVE the coffee from Quick Trip with some French Vanilla added with it. Sooo yummm and less cash!</div>
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4.) <b><u>Watching:</u></b> I am LOVING X Factor this year!! I haven't watched the show in the past but I am loving it this year. The judges are great! My favorite judge is Britney Spears. I know she isn't the best role model per se, but her music is fun to dance to. She is not only successful but she has made a great come back after up some big time negative press which in itslef pretty admirable. It would be crazy growing up in the public eye. I could go on forever about Britney. I am seeing a sweet side to Simon too!! Really loving that. :)</div>
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5.) <u><b>Laughing:</b></u> I love looking back at old photos but my new favorite is looking back at videos. My favorite of the week is my little boy Max!! He couldn't stop laughing at Ryan's Aunt saying whoa. Makes me laugh just watching it!! </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-14096811654962823942012-09-14T14:14:00.000-07:002012-09-14T14:14:14.818-07:00Racking Up the SlashesBusy week this week but it is only going to get busier because this girl got another job!<br />
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I heard a speaker not too long ago at a networking conference say how the more slashes you have the better when you are looking for you dream job. For example:<br />
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My new additional slash is not what I went to school for but I am certain it will help me in moving forward. I will be starting my new job on Monday at a restaurant in the St. Louis area. <br />
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I will only be working nights and weekends so I can still stay home with my son Max and help my fiance out with his business. I know this is not going to be easy but that is okay with me. I want to find my career and the best way to do that is to get out there and meet people. One big plus is the restaurant I will be working at has a great atmosphere!<br />
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It isn't easy being a twenty something year old. This is the time where we have to work hard for our dreams and push ourselves. I used to be the girl that was waiting on the side for the perfect opportunity but I am seeing now that the only way to find that opportunity is to go out and get it yourself. Being a twenty something year old is not easy but it is a critical time that can make you see your full potential. How exciting! Nobody can do this for you. Maybe it isn't the way I thought I would start out but that is okay! At least I am doing something to move forward.<br />
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Being a Mother will always be my number one priority. I can't really call it a job because that seems weird to me. Being a Mother is and always will be my dream in life. Nothing will beat the pride that I have in my son and being his mother. I want to make him proud and be able to teach him how I went out and made something of myself. I want to show him how we are capable of so many things and never to limit yourself. Most of all I want to show him how when you allow God to be in your life, nothing is impossible.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-34523857460486733202012-09-10T19:59:00.001-07:002012-09-10T19:59:29.118-07:00Music Video Monday!! Late Monday night post! It was a busy day today. Lots of errands and then was glued to the TV for the Bachelor Pad Finale. I am still shocked with the ending! If any of you watch that show, can you believe Nick kept the money? I can't help but feel bad for Rachel...but then again it is a game. As Nick said, every one of them talked about winning the 250 thousand, not splitting it. A part of me can't help but think that some of it was staged. Who really knows.<br />
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Anyways! Sorry if that didn't make sense if you don't watch that show. I am now a Bachelorette/Bachelor/ Bachelor Pad fan. I can't help it! :)<br />
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Back to Music Video Monday. Today I picked Big Jet Plane because it is another one of my favorites. The song is by Angus and Julia Stone and is such a great chill song. Definitely one you can play in the back ground when you are working or listen to in the car with your windows down. Here is the music video:<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-30928556220502477842012-09-09T19:00:00.000-07:002012-09-09T19:00:13.914-07:00First Week of Insanity...CHECK!!I made it through my first week of Insanity!!! Well kind of....<br />
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It was a great start but I definitely need to step it up. The first day I thought I was going to throw up. Seriously. I thought I used to work out pretty well on my own. I don't think I realized what it was like to really push yourself before Insanity.<br />
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Unfortunately I got sick with a cold on my third day but I pushed through as best as I could. I'm ready for next week to be able to really give it my all.<br />
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The eating part is not bad because I get to eat many times during the day. However, I really need to work hard to not give in to the sweets. I have a major sweet tooth. :) Need to find some recipes to try and nix those cravings.<br />
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So, overall it was a pretty good week! Not easy but I'm not going to give up!!<br />
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Insanity Week Two...here we come. :)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-78525502235353681882012-09-07T12:28:00.001-07:002012-09-07T12:28:45.772-07:00Favorite Craft FridayHappy Friday!! Today I am going to show off a couple of my favorite projects I made over the summer. They both are "word art". I have been seeing these types of projects on Pinterest and decided to make some of my own! The first one is a gift I made for my friend Candice's wedding.<br />
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To make this I first designed the name and date on Adobe Illustrator. Then I found a board and painted it white for the letter color. My fiance Ryan printed the vinyl lettering for me. When the white was dry I placed the lettering and then spray painted the board black. After the black dried a bit, but not all the way, I pulled the letters off. It is better to do it when it is not all the way dry so the lettering comes off easier.<br />
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If you do not have Adobe or a printer that can print vinyl lettering, you can use stickers from a craft store. OR you can <a href="mailto:abbeycarmen14@yahoo.com" target="_blank">email me</a> and I can help you design the lettering and have them shipped to you! Just send me what you are wanting and I can send you a quote for how much it would be. I will also send you a few different text options. There are so many different text options to choose from these days! :) <br />
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The second project I made this summer was a for my sister. <br />
She has a lake house and I wanted to make her something for her the house. We visit her every summer and always have such an awesome time, so I wanted to make her something that incorporated all the fun we had there.<br />
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For this one I decided to have some fun with the words. I wanted to make it to where you had to look at it for a while and read it and also making it to the theme of Life is Better at the Lake.<br />
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My sister loved it! This was one of my favorite gifts to give because not only was it fun to make but it had meaning behind it. :)<br />
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This fall I am going to make some for our home. I am going through all my favorite quotes now to pick the best ones. I love having positive uplifting quotes around the home so I am excited to get started on this next project! May even try some different colors this time!<br />
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This really is a pretty easy craft to make. Stickers will work but if your project is bigger or if you can't find the right kind, please feel free to email me and we will get you started! abbeycarmen14@yahoo.com.<br />
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Thanks for reading and have a great weekend!!<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-8899103816549277832012-09-05T18:08:00.000-07:002012-09-05T18:08:03.571-07:00Thirteen Reasons Why...A Must Read<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Ever find a book that when you start reading it you cannot put it down? Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher is one of those books.<br />
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I'm not sure how I found the book. I was looking for something new to read on my nook one night and stumbled on the Jay Asher book. The main character is a high school boy who receives a box of audio tapes. The person on the tapes is Hannah Baker, a girl who recently committed suicide. She tells the thirteen people, who are on a list included with the tapes, how they contributed to her wanting to end her life.<br />
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It is almost hard to call this book good because it is a sad story. Hearing Hannah tell her story makes me think of the kids that are being bullied everyday in school. When reading reviews of this book I saw that some schools are actually using this book to talk to kids about bullying.<br />
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This is a great book for people of all ages to read. Not only does it bring about the topic of bullying but it also reminds you how important it is to be kind to people. No matter how big or small you think your influence may be in their life or what you think you know about them, be kind. Nobody truly knows and understands what each person is going through. So do your best to leave them smiling. :)<br />
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Please Comment!<br />
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Have you read this book? If so what did you think?<br />
What did you think about Hannah Baker's character? Some who reviewed the book wished she would have been less spiteful and vindictive and had a more serious tone. One that made her sound more serious and deep, wanting others to know how their actions affected her. Do you agree?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-28039902823202320002012-09-01T06:47:00.000-07:002012-09-01T06:50:43.091-07:00Happy Birthday to My Nephew in HeavenDear Evan Matthew,<br />
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Happy Birthday Evan!!<br />
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I thought about you during my entire run this morning. This day last year I got to meet you: the strongest, bravest sweet little angel. I can't help but feel sad that we can't spend your birthday with you today. But I know you are here with us and your Great Grandma and Grandma are showering you with kisses and having fun with you on your special day! :)<br />
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We are going to your house to spend the day with your family. Celebrating birthdays is one of your Mom's favorite things. When it is her birthday she would call it her birthday week AND weekend! :) I know she is going to have a great birthday week/weekend this year because we get to spend one of the days doing a walk in memory of you!<br />
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We love you so much Evan and we all think of you every day. Your parents and big sister are so proud of their little angel in Heaven. Thanks to their strength they have been able to help other Mommies and Daddies who have lost their babies. People know you Evan that we don't even know!! You are our little superstar! :)<br />
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I love and miss you and hope you have a wonderful birthday.<br />
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Love,<br />
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<a href="http://youtu.be/wQjHCDG3aqo" target="_blank">Evan's Video</a> <a href="http://ouryoungwarrior.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Evan's Mommy's Blog</a><br />
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I have always wanted to be fit and strong but never fully reached my goal. Even when I was on Team Fredbird and at a weight that I was happy with, I still wanted to have more muscle and strength.<br />
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After having a baby I was thinking I would give up on the whole idea. If I could just loose that baby weight and get back to where I was when I was at my ideal weight, I would be happy. Well now I have reached my goal weight, but my body is different after having a baby. So now what?<br />
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Now it is time for some Insanity. :)<br />
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When I got the box I immediately got nervous. What did I do!? I don't look anything like these people on the box. Am I going to be able to do this?<br />
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As you go through the book there are different DVDs and in the back there is a calendar that maps out your workouts. There is also a nutrition guide. That is my favorite part.<br />
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The nutrition part not only helps you figure out your calories but it also gives you meals to choose from! I often struggle even coming up with meal ideas for my family. Now I not only have meal ideas but it even tells you how to make them!!<br />
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I know this is going to be hard work and a lot of dedication but I am ready for the challenge. Once I get the hang of it I would really love to be a Beachbody coach! I'm just going to take it one day at a time though and focus on getting through Insanity.<br />
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I did the Fit Test yesterday but I am not going to start until next week. Let me tell you...that was not easy! I am feeling it today. I am not starting until next week because I like the rest day being on Sunday so starting on Tuesday will work best. Plus I can get my grocery shopping done so I am ready to roll! At first I thought that would be perfect because I can eat whatever I want on this Labor day weekend but after thinking about it some more I don't think I am going to do that. I don't want to make it even harder for Tuesday. Next purchase I am going to make is the Shakeology drink. I am excited to see how it tastes!<br />
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If you do any of these programs please email me at abbeycarmen14@yahoo.com or comment below! I would love to have a work out buddy so we can motivate each other!!<br />
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It was a hard decision to make if I wanted to put my before pictures on here but I decided to go for it. Why not? If I am going to write about my journey I should show some before pictures so people can actually see if there is progress right? I took my photos myself so they aren't the best but here they are:<br />
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AHHH!!! Haha that was tough to do. Notice how the pictures are the smallest setting possible? :) Gives me even more motivation and excitement to make some changes though! My biggest problem area is my mid section. That has always been a tough spot for me but even more so after having my little boy 2 years ago. My arms have also been challenging for me to tone so I am excited to see what happens!</div>
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Well, here I go!! I will update my blog once a week with how the working out and new eating plan are both going. Wish me luck! :)</div>
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Often people forget or are so busy in the morning they skip it. Well I found a shake on pinterest from a blogger <a href="http://fitisthenewblack.me/2012/01/20/breakfast-coffee-protein-shake/" target="_blank">Fit is The New Black</a> that I have to share! This Breakfast Protein Shake is awesome because it </div>
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There were a few things I did differently when I made the shake but I mostly stuck to the directions. One thing I did do differently is I did not add the banana. Instead I ate the banana or made a couple pieces of whole grain bread. <a href="http://www.livestrong.com/article/523716-how-soon-after-waking-up-should-you-eat/" target="_blank">Livestrong</a> suggests eating breakfast within the first half hour of waking up to best jump-start your metabolism. Grabbing a banana made it easy to get something down while getting ready and also something to eat as the coffee brewed. </div>
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So there you go! A breakfast on the go plus the caffeine!! Thank you<a href="http://fitisthenewblack.me/" target="_blank"> Fit is the New Black</a> for sharing this awesome shake!!! :)</div>
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This music video took some searching because I just wasn't sure what I wanted to post.<br />
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Some Nights by Fun! I know it is a bit over played on the radio right now but it is such a good song. I wasn't 100% sure what the song meant so I looked it up on <a href="http://www.songfacts.com/detail.php?id=25525" target="_blank">song facts</a>. I like songs that are inspired by real people and it is cool how he gets his inspiration from his family. The song makes me want to have a dance party in my car each time I hear it.<br />
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If you have never heard the song, check it out! If you have heard the song you should watch the video because it is a great one.<br />
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I love hearing new music so please comment below if you have any new or old music to share!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10477593602773177809noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-754839890784871501.post-35393078797552514892012-08-16T17:14:00.000-07:002012-08-16T20:51:54.813-07:00As We Grow Up<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">It is crazy when you find a quote by an unknown author and it can sum up exactly how you feel at a certain time of your life. Even better is when you find one that continues to apply to how you feel about life. The quote below is one of my favorites. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">The part of the quote that applies to me today is the theme of forgiveness. As I have grown up I have learned how important it is to forgive others. It is easier to forgive if they apologize but even when they don't it is important to forgive and Let It Go. Not everyone is perfect. The one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will because they are not perfect. And guess what? Neither are you. Holding on to the hurt does not prove to that person anything. All it does is make the hurt last longer.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Although forgiving is somewhat difficult, it really is the easy part. Trusting them in the future, that is where it gets tricky. Do you forgive and forget, with the possibility of getting hurt again? Or do you hold back and keep the relationship at a distance? Either way it will be hard. Then think about how you would want to be treated if you hurt someone else. Would you want them to forgive you but not forget what you did? Would you want them to never trust you again?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
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